You have just broken up with someone. Now, you are feeling anxious. And now, you are wondering whether to keep in contact with your ex. Or perhaps, you should go no contact at all.
You are at the point now where you ask yourself: “Will he come back after no contact?” This question is something people who just broke up with their exes ask themselves. And it’s perfectly normal to ask yourself this question after a breakup.
There is no 100% correct answer to this question. It’s usually hard to tell if an ex will come back after some time of no contact or not. But in most cases, they do come back to you after having no contact with them for quite some time.
Exes usually come back when they are those you never cheated on, manipulated, or deceived in the course of your relationship. When you get into a relationship with someone, you must treat them right so that after a quick break, they come back to you after some time of no contact with them.
Some signs tell you an ex you’ve treated well will come back to you. If you want to know more about these signs, you should read until the end of this article. I will share these with you so that you can tell for yourself whether an ex you have just broken up with will come back to you or not.
Will My Ex Come Back After No Contact?
One sign your ex will come back to you is when the both of you have resolved why he left you in the first place.
There are plenty of reasons why couples break up. It could be something you can identify and work on to better yourself. It could also be the kind of break-up that comes out of nowhere. These are what I like to call “the blind side break-up” because couples who experience this end up being blindsided by the break-up. There’s no specific reason for the break-up. It just happens.
If you have broken up with your partner for no specific reason at all, you should let time heal and resolve the issues that led to the break-up. Do not contact your ex at all. Both of you may need time apart to identify the cause of the break-up. You may need to work on some individual issues on your own before you get back together again later.
In cases like this, your ex will come back to you when he is ready to. Prepare yourself for anything that can happen then. He may come back to you. But then again, there’s the possibility that he may not.
You may also work on some issues you may have so that when he comes back to you, you are ready for another try at a healthier relationship with your ex. Another sign your ex will come back to you is when you have used your time apart well. There is what is called active no-contact. You can do this to get your ex back later.
Actively avoid your ex while fixing some personal issues you may have. Exes like to come back to relationships that are the same but different. They come back to a new and improved relationship with their exes. Time apart with no contact at all where you get to work on your issues and fix them is a sure sign your ex will come back to you.
Use your time apart from your ex wisely. Improve yourself however way you can. After not contacting him for quite some time, he will surely come looking for you soon.
You can also take this time to re-examine your relationships with others. Your family and friends, for example. Sometimes, exes walk away from their partners because their other half does not have good relations with other people around them. Maybe there’s a friend or a family you have to cut out of your life because they are toxic to your relationship. Cut off the toxic people in your life. Then maybe you can get your ex back after that.
Your Ex Will Come Back To You When Your Interaction With Him Is Better
Once you have worked on your issues and fixed your relationship with other people around you, your interaction with your ex may improve, too. They do say time heals broken relationships. This saying applies in romantic relationships, too.
Only interact with your ex again when you feel you are ready to. You will know that you can interact with your ex again when you feel better about yourself. Your interaction with your ex will also be better when he has rid himself of baggage during your time apart.
Do not force meeting him. If you hurry to meet him after you’ve fixed your issues, you may end up not getting him back at all.
Let time help you to cross one another’s paths again. You may meet your ex again at a gathering of family and friends. You may cross paths with your ex, too, at an event at work. You can wait for him to come to you and initiate interaction. If the interaction with him is better, he will surely come back to you.
You Can Get Your Ex Back If You Don’t Give Up Easily
Your ex will not want to go back to someone quick to give up. If you are this kind of partner, it’s time to change that.
Getting back with an ex is no walk in the park. You have to work hard to get an ex back. Show your ex that you have matured since your break-up. Self-improvement and growth are sure signs that you have become someone who doesn’t give up quickly in a relationship. Your ex will surely come back to you once he sees how much you have changed to be better after your break-up.
Will He Come Back After No Contact?
The answer to this question is yes. He will come back to you after a period of no contact. It will take time and a lot of effort from you. Once he’s back in your life, all you’ve worked on have paid off.