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<\/figure>\n\n\n- Goals<\/a><\/li>
- Banter<\/a><\/li>
- Gossip<\/a><\/li>
- Hobbies<\/a><\/li>
- Sex<\/a><\/li>
- Family<\/a><\/li>
- TV Shows<\/a><\/li>
- Movies<\/a><\/li>
- Fashion<\/a><\/li>
- Style<\/a><\/li>
- Dating History<\/a><\/li>
- Work\/Career<\/a><\/li>
- Tell Her a Joke<\/a><\/li>
- Music<\/a><\/li>
- Books<\/a><\/li>
- Education<\/a><\/li>
- Food<\/a><\/li>
- Her Morning Routine<\/a><\/li>
- Her Shower Routine<\/a><\/li>
- Culture<\/a><\/li>
- Pets<\/a><\/li>
- Travel<\/a><\/li>
- Gym<\/a><\/li>
- How are they?<\/a><\/li>
- Love<\/a><\/li>
- Conclusion<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n
Goals<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
When talking to a woman, it’s important to show her your value. By talking about your goals and dreams, it will convey that you have ambition and that it’s worth her time to invest in you. It’s good to talk about your dreams and the goals you have set for yourself with everyone, not just women. No one wants to hang around with a loser that is going nowhere in life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
In return, she will open up to you and tell you about her dreams and goals, and you will start to build a connection. Talking about your goals is also good not only to impress women, but it’s good to remind yourself about the goals you have set in life<\/strong>. Once you tell people where you are going and what you are going to achieve, it puts pressure on you to go out and achieve what you want in life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Banter<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
When talking with women, it’s good to be quick with your words and to be able to engage in witty banter. It shows you are confident and funny, everyone wants to be around someone who is funny. When you can make women laugh, you bring joy to their lives and you give them a reason to come back and talk to you more. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
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Evening comedy show on television.<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n Listen to stand-up comedians, or watch funny shows<\/strong> with good banter \u2014 such as “Seinfeld” <\/em>and “It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia”<\/em> \u2014 or any show that makes you laugh and has quick-witted humor. Watching programs like this will improve your banter game; you can even use exact lines from the shows for a laugh. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Banter is something that improves with time, and everyone has a different style of banter with each of their different friends. Practicing banter with a woman and seeing what makes her smile and laugh and learning the lines that work and that don’t work is a great way to become more comfortable talking to women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Gossip<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
One thing women love to engage in \u2014 whether they admit it or not \u2014 is gossip. Women are very perceptive of their surroundings and are very good at picking up non-verbal cues. Women always want to know what people are doing: who is dating who, who likes who, who said what about someone else. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Men are much more simplistic in their conversations with one other; sometimes male friends will hang out and not say a word to each other for 15 minutes. Women crave attention and gossip is an easy topic<\/strong> for them to get carried away with. As long as you can always put a new spin on what you’re saying the conversation doesn’t get stale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hobbies<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Talk about your hobbies to make yourself seem more interesting. If you’re out on the weekend shooting hoops, or in the gym, or playing in a band, tell women this. If they show interest in what you’re telling them, then go into more detail and tell them stories about the things that happen while doing your hobbies. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
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A man holding a DSLR camera for photography activities.<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n You will appear manly, confident, and someone who leads an interesting life. And you shouldn’t be making up hobbies to seem more interesting; you should actually be out there engaging in fun activities. This can be an opening to invite them along. Even if you don’t believe they are interested in doing your hobbies with you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
If they show interest it’s a good chance to ask them for their number under the pretense of doing those hobbies (even if you don’t plan on bringing them along next time you jam with your friends or whatever it is). Once you have their number on your phone, you can start talking to them even more and go from there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sex<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
As much as men might think that it’s rude to talk about sex with women, women are sexual beings as much as we are, <\/strong>and they enjoy talking about it. Don’t go up to a woman and open with: “What’s your favorite position?”,<\/em> that would be creepy. But once you build comfort and attraction with one another, the subject will come up at some point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
You can also make jokes about sexual things to gauge their level of comfort. If a woman makes a comment about a body part of yours she likes, invite her to come to have a squeeze. Once a woman touches you and reciprocates that she enjoys it, you can start lightly touching her back and build up attraction. If she is comfortable with you touching her, it shows that she has an interest in you as a potential mate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Family<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Talking about your family and your family values is a perfect way to connect with a woman, especially if you have a great relationship with your family. If you talk about your parents, she will see that you have a family-oriented mind, and women inherently are interested in men who they believe will make a great addition to their family. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
She will start telling you about her family and telling you her values and family morals. Women have to be careful with the men they allow in their lives because they are fertile and through evolutionary means, they are seeking someone they believe will be a great provider and a dominant father figure to their children. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Even if they aren’t interested in pursuing sexual relations, talking about your family with a woman will show her your softer side by demonstrating responsibility.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
TV Shows<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
This one may seem obvious, but women are as complex as men believe they are. A woman will almost certainly have a favorite TV show she enjoys quoting, and it may be similar or the same as yours. Women aren’t all about “Sex in the City”<\/em>; there are plenty of shows that you will find common ground on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Movies<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Talk about your favorite movies. Women have a lot more variety in the type of movies they like than you might suspect. Plenty of women enjoys horror movies and action films.<\/strong> Horror movies make great dates: they always want a man around when they’re scared.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Fashion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Ask a woman how she feels about your fashion. She will give you compliments and honest feedback that will improve your game with other women. Most of the time, you don’t even have to ask. If a woman says she likes a certain shirt you wear, take note. If she likes it, then other women will probably like it as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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Hipster style guy.<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n Style<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Compliment her on her hairstyle if she wears it a certain way you like. Women like a man that tells them how to fix themselves up.<\/strong> It won’t be long before you will have women texting you, asking you how they should wear their hair and what type of clothes they should wear to your date.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dating History<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Women may not be comfortable talking about their past partners, but it\u2019s important to at least ask a woman about her dating history to get a read on her to figure out if she is lying or telling the truth. Some women won’t reveal the true number of partners they’ve been with, and some men become bitter towards women because of this. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
But many will tell you the truth and reveal their dating history if they want to proceed further with you. Not all women are liars, and to think so is an undesirable trait to have. If they are honest in other areas of life, then there’s a good chance they will be honest when talking about their dating history. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Once they reveal this information, it shows they trust you.<\/strong> You can also learn a lot about a woman from her dating resume, and figure out if she’s worth investing more time in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Work\/Career<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Sometimes it’s easiest to keep it simple: talk about work. Ask her what she does, what her past jobs were, and what she aspires to do for a living. In return, tell her about your job; the responsibilities you have, your everyday routine, the people you work with. It may be boring, and it might be something you don’t constantly want to talk about but some people love what they do for a living and are delighted to talk about it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tell Her a Joke<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
This one works well even on a girl you’re afraid of approaching. Think of a funny joke that\u2019s on your mind or something hilarious that happened to you in the past; something you know will make you laugh. When she sees you laughing, she might ask: “What’s so funny?”<\/em> If she doesn’t ask and she catches your eye while you’re laughing, say: “I just thought of the funniest thing.”<\/em> to which she will probably be interested.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tell her the joke or story and put a smile on her face. Make sure it is not offensive<\/strong>, and even if she doesn’t laugh, play it off like you have a different type of humor. She’ll probably fake a laugh, even if she doesn’t find it funny.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Music<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
This is very simple; asked her what type of music she likes. She could have a completely different taste than you, or she could have a very similar taste to you. If you have a similar taste in music, try asking her if she wants to go to a concert with you sometime, or get together for a drink and listen to whatever genre of music it is. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
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Couple enjoying an acoustic music genre.<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n Music is the background to our lives; so many significant moments are relieved when we hear a song because it invokes a certain memory. Try to find agreeable music you can both talk about and make memories together with a new soundtrack playing in the background.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Books<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Finding out what type of books a woman reads (if she reads) is a great indicator of her intelligence level and will give you something to connect on if she is into the same stuff as you. If you’re a reader, tell her the books you’ve read and tell her what you’ve learned from them. Intelligence impresses women BIG TIME.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Education<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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